Hey, You alright pal?

Stuart Boyd • Oct 29, 2021

On this day (31st October) in 2018 I was visiting St James Park, a station in the suburbs of Exeter.

St James Park station, Exeter

I was visiting the station as part of one of my first major trips of the challenge. A trip that had seen me visit most of Cornwall and a decent amount of Devon, but on my 2nd to last day of the trip, things took a sad turn.

I was stood on the southbound platform awaiting for my train which would take me to Newcourt. While I was waiting for the train I noticed a gent on the opposite platform. After a short while this chap jumped down onto the tracks and walked across the lines and jumped up onto the platform I was stood on. He then approached me and asked if I had a lighter on me for his cigarette. I replied with a no, and that was all that was said. 

I remember thinking 'he really shouldn't be crossing the tracks' but he then stood back near the fence and I assumed he was Ok and was waiting for a train. My train to Newcourt approached and I boarded and was on my way. A short wait at Newcourt before heading to Exeter St Davids when I boarded a train for Feniton. The journey to Feniton went without issue. At Feniton I hopped on a bus and headed to Whimple where I had intended to board a train to Pinhoe. 

Sadly at Whimple, I noticed the departure screens were showing "Delayed" and then shortly later changing to "Cancelled". A quick look on my phone and I learnt that my train had been terminated at Honiton. At this point my heart sank, I learnt that the delay and following cancellation was due to a fatality at St James Park... I knew immediately who it was, my heart was in pieces!

I managed to find a bus service which took me back into Exeter. I decided to head back to St James Park and speak to the British Transport Police. My suspicions were confirmed, the person that had been hit was indeed the gentleman I had seen and very briefly exchange words with. I was one of the last people to speak to this gentleman.

I gave a statement to the BTP officer and then went for a long walk around Exeter before heading to my hotel. The questions I asked myself that evening are the same questions I have asked myself over a hundred time since. The questions are along the lines of 
  • Could I have done more
  • Should I of reported him to the police for trespass
  • Should I of asked him if he was ok
  • Would he still be alive if I had done any of the above 
These questions haunt me all the time, every time I see a tweet about another fatality on the railways. The answer I always come back to myself is "Yh, but I wasn't to know, but now I do know, I must do everything I can do to help prevent this happening again"

So what do I do differently now: 
  • I report any trespass sightings to the BTP. Not to get anyone in trouble, but more to get them the help they might need, be that life saving help, or education on the dangers of taking shortcuts across the tracks.
  • Say hi to other people, acknowledge people and say things like "alright" or "how you doing". Many ignore me, but those short sentences might be all that is needed to make them feel wanted, make them change their way of thinking. 
I've not written this blog in looking for sympathy, or for attention. I have chose this year to write this short blog as mental health issue calls to charities like Samaritans are higher than ever. Mental health affects people in different ways, it does different things to you, it can make you think there is no way out...

You might not know who you are talking too, but by just saying a word or two, you might help someone more than you could imagine. 

To the gentleman who asked for a lighter, I'm sorry I didn't have a lighter, I'm sorry I didn't ask how you was.

RIP fella. 

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